宠溺孩子的危害 The Dangers of Spoil the Child

Nowadays, it is not rare to see that the
parents spoil the child, they love the kid by the way they think it’s best for
them. When it comes to spoil the child, different people have different
opinions, some people think that it is fine to spoil the child, parents should
treat them as best as they could; while the rest held that parents should teach
the child rationally. In my point of view, I agree with the later one.

现在父母溺爱孩子并不少见，他们用他们以为是最好的方式去爱他们的孩子。每当说到溺爱孩子的问题，不同的人有不同的想法。有的人认为宠溺孩子是好的，父母应该尽可能地对他们好；然而剩下的人认为父母应该理智地教育孩子。就我看来，我同意后者。

 In
the first place, parents are the children’s first teacher, they will believe
everything from their parents’ education and they are a good copycat, they will
simulate the action form their parents. For instance, when a child fight in
school, some parents will not analysis why the fight begins, they will blame
the child who fight with their kid no matter it is their kin’s fault or not.
This is absolutely make the child believe that he is right about everything, which
will make them hard to tell what is wrong or right.

第一，父母是孩子的第一个老师，他们会相信所有的从父母所教的东西，而且他们都是很好的模仿者，他们会模仿他们父母的一举一动。例如，当孩子在学校打架了，有些父母不会分析为什么会打起来，他们只会责备那个和他们孩子打起来的那个人，不管是不是他们孩子的错。这绝对会让孩子相信他做的所有的事情都是对的，这会让他难以分清是与非。

In
the second place, since now lots parents buy a whole bunch expensive stuff for
their child, it might easily cause the problem of wasting or comparing with
others. Children who are proud of their favorable living conditions are more
tend to look down to the one are poor. Besides, once they are living in the
lower live level than they are expected, they might feel maladjustment or even
abandon themselves.

第二，鉴于很多父母会买很多昂贵的东西给他们的孩子，这很容易会造成孩子的浪费和攀比问题。那些自豪于他们优越的生活条件的孩子们，很可能会看不起比他们穷的孩子。除此之外，一旦他们生活在比他们预想还低的生活水平，他们可能会感到不适应或者干脆自暴自弃。

To
sum up, parents should love their children rationally, but not love them
blindly.

总而言之，父母应该理智地爱他们的孩子，而不是盲目的去爱。